Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[lano1106]

The type of woman you are referring to can and will initiate. She will usually not do so in public unless drunk or otherwise over the top aroused and enthralled at the same time. Like all women, like all humans, she has an animal brain and sexual instincts, and if you hit that button hard enough, she will act on them. You have a self limiting belief here, associating the modern feminist with what DMSI is going after and seeing it as being in conflict with what you want.

Believe me, it is very possible to find a woman who is feminine who will initiate and have sex with a man she finds sufficiently attractive and valuable. No matter how submissive a woman is, she still has ways of doing this. I speak from personal experience. DMSI can and will get you the kind of woman you are attracted to, as soon as your misunderstandings get out of the way. Your subconscious knows what the script is, and is fully aware that what I say is true. Which means in this case, it is likely your conscious mind resisting...

Ok. I accept and will let sink-in this truth inside my mind... ;-)

And I can relate to what you describe as a high-value male. Before I started DMSI, I got this wild night in a club where I went there with a female friend and her female friend. So I came in the place with 2 girls. I noticed the most beautiful girl in the place. I went to see her to say hello. She had an immediate crush on me as I kept bumping into her all along the night.

She did ask if we had plans after the place close. She did put her phone # into my phone without me asking for it. She did qualify big time to me by telling me what she was doing at her job (she tried to impress me). As she was talking to me, in the back of my mind, I was telling to myself: She is so much into me. I have this girl.

So when the club did close, we ended up at my friend place and I ended in bed with these 3 girls.

So I know what it is when a girl is around a high-value male. That type of adventure simply did not happen much since DMSI 3.1... I just shared this story to establish that I know what it looks like when a girl is chasing a guy...

How regularly and frequently did you have that type of adventure before 3.1? Because if it slowed down in response to 3.1 or later, you were preventing it from happening for some reason.

Not often. I gave my wildest sexual experience as an example ;-)
This is once in a lifetime type of thing. Nothing has slowed down. No worries.

I got a very interesting fling immediately when I started DMSI 3.1. It started in July and ended end of November... nothing to complain about it. It was very fun...

When I break up from one of those things, it takes some time before my hormones start bothering me and tell me to do something to change my situation. I'm at such a point now. I want some female companionship and I know that it won't be long before finding it. Idk, it is as if I had some kind of seasonal cycle. 4 flings/year seems about right for me.

Actually, it is the bare minimum. I could have a little bit more if I had interesting offers but not much more than 1 at the same time. I really don't have much free time to spend with women.

It is like the Maslow pyramid. I'm almost in survival mode. I stopped working for a salary to dedicate myself to my business.

It is very rewarding because the potential is the sky once it lift off. I'm my own boss which give me tremendous 'freedom' despite having to work 7 days a week...

Income is volatile and not totally fully sustainable. Hence as I said, my social life is taking a hit. I have no doubt in my mind that if I was just going out once a week since last summer, I would have had more sexual partners...

Just tonight, there is a girl who was going out in a club with her girlfriend and she invited me to join them and I declined because I had shit to complete. We are supposed to meet tomorrow evening but you never know what will happen tomorrow. If my business would have been more in control, I would have certainly accepted the invitation and maybe something wild would have come out of it....

but yes... maybe I prevent something... too personal to share on a public forum but this exchange made me realize something Shannon... You gave me few things to meditate on...

3. idk, if you will agree but I don't believe that I high-value man will dedicate time to chase women. This is opposite of being high-value. I believe that a high-value man is busy realizing his vision and women see the potential of the man so she is attracted to that.

As long as your beliefs conflict with the goals of DMSI, you will resist it. As long as you believe that you have to chase to get tail, you will be stuck believing you are displaying lower value while you are in fact classing yourself, at best, as being "Level 2" instead of Level 1. Just because a lot of guys can't naturally get attention without action is not to say that the top 1% of the top 1% can't. What you're trying to do is be that level 2 or whatever guy, who is successful within his level. What DMSI is trying to do is turn you into that Level 1 guy you refuse to believe exists.

Brad Pitt walks into a bar. How many women does he have to game to go out to his car and get his dick wet?

Nicholas Cage. Elvis Presley. Michael Jordan. John F. Kennedy. Justin Beiber. George Clooney. Will Smith. Johnny Depp. Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson. Tom Cruise. Robert Downey Jr. Ashton Kutcher. Channing Tatum. Frank Sinatra. Tiger Woods. Leonardo DiCaprio. Eminem. John Wayne. All of these guys, and many more, could answer with...

Zero.

I think that I believe and get that. This belief is integrated. I expect good reaction from women when I interact with them and I do receive the good reaction. I rarely get rejected when I open women and I do get opened quite frequently now that I come to think about it.

My problem is that I'm so busy with my vision (my business) that my social life is taking a hit. I have small interactions with women during random errands. Very positive interactions but I need to do something (like exchanging contact infos) or else nothing happens. I'm all in for letting women chasing me but I need to at least give them the opportunity to do so.

Right now, this is not an habit to leave my contact infos to women reacting very positively to me when I meet them. This is something that I should be doing on autopilot without having to think about it...

You can say that I have blocks, limiting beliefs but right now this is my best explanation for not having maybe not as much sex as I could have...

The highest value men do not have to leave contact info. They are flooded with it from women.

Women want to be with them and **** them and please them so much that they will do whatever it takes to succeed. That's why these guys have to wear disguises in public, and avoid certain places in public, and and and.

You are not thinking like a DMSI man yet.

ok, lets continue listening the program until I do then...

thx for the feedback...