(11-02-2017, 05:16 AM)Razib1988 Wrote:(11-01-2017, 07:07 PM)Sully Wrote: I am curious about your situation. Of how many of the 3000 approaches went well? How many of them responded positvitly and you managed to get far? What do you feel is holding you back specifically from having sex? Are you nervous to take it too far or do the approach’s not go well or what?
I was thinking of running OAA myself but each time I keep thinking approaching won’t work or some excuse I come up with.
A few tough questions, man! I don't wanna pull up all my pick up history right now. But I can say that I've taken girls home from daygame, had very enjoyable times (not too much sex though), made out with hundreds of them, made genuine connections, made friends, got shut down, got insulted, got drinks thrown at, got ridiculed, been ghosted, fingerblasted at the clubs and so on. Most of my approaches were futile since they ended within first minute or 2. If you ask me what is holding me back, is my extreme social conditioning and less sexual value coupled with me not knowing how to steer the dynamics towards sex. About few months ago, I found I also have the problem of premature ejaculation. A MILF that I brought home was horny as **** and I couldn't give her my D. I ejaculated during the foreplay and never got it hard. I still have a lot to work with. I'll be using DMSI after giving OAA a month. I need a lot of healing before I turn into a beast. I know I have the potential but it's not firing up the arsenals.
Thanks.