10-13-2017, 08:56 PM
Some thoughts and DMSI Notables ahead:
- Did sales. Nothing, despite being "on point". As I've mentioned before, "on point" is usually a bad state for me. I think after a year of trying to do things the "right" way I can say that it doesn't work for me, and probably never will.
It doesn't mean I'm throwing the baby out with the bathwater, but I AM going to focus more on what works from now on, and just f*cking do that. Books, opinions, advice, are all just guesses. Unless it produces results, it's worthless.
- To that end, PLEASE, for the love of humanity, Shannon, PLEASE make DMSI help the user be aware of and sensitive to what women ACTUALLY respond to, not what PUA's, gurus, new-agers, "naturals", or anyone else who's "good" with women says. I've tried dozens of "ways" including some advocated by some on this very forum (not going to mention names!), including some tonight/today, that simply do not work for me or lead to nothing substantial.
- I'll get to that in a second, first lets have a notable that I think is important to mention:
So I was at a gas station and the girl working the register I've seen her before. Countless times.
Anyhow, as I'm leaving she says "How are you?" (never asked me this, not to mention it's odd since I'm leaving that she asks me this. Clearly DMSI sniping her and this was an approach :o )
So I stop and I'm like "not bad, how are you?"
She says "I'm good."
I'm like "Awesome! Well... have a great weekend!" and I wave, she smiles and says "you too!" and waves back.
I leave.
Then I get in my car and I'm looking on my phone for some reason, then this hot girl walks past my car into the gas station and I'm like "should I go after her to talk to her?" then I'm like "nah, that would be ME approaching HER. i.e. Me seducing HER." So that was odd.
If I'm honest, I would have liked to f*ck her, but because she doesn't approach me I can't? How f*cked up is that?
That's a reason to make DMSI a seducer sub, imo. Why should we play the VICTIM to circumstance in this regard? I honestly don't get that. But I digress.
- Ok, so now another moment. I was at Denny's with my cousin. We were talking about sales (man alive, SO good to talk about things I'm actually passionate about with someone who is passionate about it too!!). Our waitress was an arabic woman. 7/10. Gread ass, small tits (I think). She seemed indifferent to me for a while till I made more effort to thank her and smile (!).
Eventually, I asked her what was on her hand (she had designs on her hand() she said it's Henna. I'm like "what's that?" she tells me what it is. Then she's like "Just google 'Henna'. Here..." then writes the name of it down on my receipt lol.
So I learned some things about her, was curious, showed interest in her WORLD not just her body and... nothing. She waved at me as we left. Laaaaammmmmmeeeee.
I was expecting her to be all like "ooh, who is this guy who likes me for myself not just my body" but nah. Just another bland interaction.
So in that "N=1" instance, 'it' didn't work.
I think making a connection is good, but honestly, I know SO much about my hairdresser and her inner world and life now that I could be her psychologist. She ain't f*cking me, however, so that IS NOT IT!!
Something else makes women wanna F*CK a guy, and it ain't being interested in THEM, not imo.
So, there it is. I said it. Cue the flaming.
Time for bed.
- Did sales. Nothing, despite being "on point". As I've mentioned before, "on point" is usually a bad state for me. I think after a year of trying to do things the "right" way I can say that it doesn't work for me, and probably never will.
It doesn't mean I'm throwing the baby out with the bathwater, but I AM going to focus more on what works from now on, and just f*cking do that. Books, opinions, advice, are all just guesses. Unless it produces results, it's worthless.
- To that end, PLEASE, for the love of humanity, Shannon, PLEASE make DMSI help the user be aware of and sensitive to what women ACTUALLY respond to, not what PUA's, gurus, new-agers, "naturals", or anyone else who's "good" with women says. I've tried dozens of "ways" including some advocated by some on this very forum (not going to mention names!), including some tonight/today, that simply do not work for me or lead to nothing substantial.
- I'll get to that in a second, first lets have a notable that I think is important to mention:
So I was at a gas station and the girl working the register I've seen her before. Countless times.
Anyhow, as I'm leaving she says "How are you?" (never asked me this, not to mention it's odd since I'm leaving that she asks me this. Clearly DMSI sniping her and this was an approach :o )
So I stop and I'm like "not bad, how are you?"
She says "I'm good."
I'm like "Awesome! Well... have a great weekend!" and I wave, she smiles and says "you too!" and waves back.
I leave.
Then I get in my car and I'm looking on my phone for some reason, then this hot girl walks past my car into the gas station and I'm like "should I go after her to talk to her?" then I'm like "nah, that would be ME approaching HER. i.e. Me seducing HER." So that was odd.
If I'm honest, I would have liked to f*ck her, but because she doesn't approach me I can't? How f*cked up is that?
That's a reason to make DMSI a seducer sub, imo. Why should we play the VICTIM to circumstance in this regard? I honestly don't get that. But I digress.
- Ok, so now another moment. I was at Denny's with my cousin. We were talking about sales (man alive, SO good to talk about things I'm actually passionate about with someone who is passionate about it too!!). Our waitress was an arabic woman. 7/10. Gread ass, small tits (I think). She seemed indifferent to me for a while till I made more effort to thank her and smile (!).
Eventually, I asked her what was on her hand (she had designs on her hand() she said it's Henna. I'm like "what's that?" she tells me what it is. Then she's like "Just google 'Henna'. Here..." then writes the name of it down on my receipt lol.
So I learned some things about her, was curious, showed interest in her WORLD not just her body and... nothing. She waved at me as we left. Laaaaammmmmmeeeee.
I was expecting her to be all like "ooh, who is this guy who likes me for myself not just my body" but nah. Just another bland interaction.
So in that "N=1" instance, 'it' didn't work.
I think making a connection is good, but honestly, I know SO much about my hairdresser and her inner world and life now that I could be her psychologist. She ain't f*cking me, however, so that IS NOT IT!!
Something else makes women wanna F*CK a guy, and it ain't being interested in THEM, not imo.
So, there it is. I said it. Cue the flaming.
Time for bed.
