10-04-2017, 07:56 AM
So last night I noticed some insane behaviour from my brother.
Insane here meaning: out of the ordinary and more intense than usual.
His laugh was more intense, he was more giddy, more engaged, more everything. It's almost like he was on drugs.
Everything he normally does was intensified, amplified, insane.
I had applied the pheromone SOB to myself in the morning. I find it hard to believe that it lasted that long, but that is the only explanation I have, unless it's the stuff I'm learning from that book.
I was trying a few techniques and it was like setting off a bomb. If I timed it right, my brother would explode into crazy laughter or more intense talking.
This is some next-level shit. I'm not sure what it means or what to do with it.
So far the book I'm reading largely advocates copying people and giving them back tonality, behavior, and body language that they display to make them feel connected to you. So far, it's worked.
It also reminds me of my hairdresser and how I did the exact same thing with her. Basically just did a variation of "matching and mirroring".
When you match and mirror, people feel connected to you, even if you don't agree with them. It's crazy.
Freaks me out, tbh. Here I want to think people are rational and individuals, yet all you have to do is copy a few gestures and they change their behaviour immediately.
Which is all well and good, but so far it's directionless.
I need to be able to match and mirror only the positive stuff (or only the stuff I like?) and not the bad struff. Hoping there's a key to influence people in there.
We'll see.
One thing my brother has shown me is that people can take notice of and try to get on your good side/impress you/connect with you even if you are very different.
I'm puzzled as to why girls are not this aggressive in their interactions with me, and what caused my brother to start doing this. The SOB may have amplified it, but it was there since a few months ago. He got more and more like this.
Insane here meaning: out of the ordinary and more intense than usual.
His laugh was more intense, he was more giddy, more engaged, more everything. It's almost like he was on drugs.
Everything he normally does was intensified, amplified, insane.
I had applied the pheromone SOB to myself in the morning. I find it hard to believe that it lasted that long, but that is the only explanation I have, unless it's the stuff I'm learning from that book.
I was trying a few techniques and it was like setting off a bomb. If I timed it right, my brother would explode into crazy laughter or more intense talking.
This is some next-level shit. I'm not sure what it means or what to do with it.
So far the book I'm reading largely advocates copying people and giving them back tonality, behavior, and body language that they display to make them feel connected to you. So far, it's worked.
It also reminds me of my hairdresser and how I did the exact same thing with her. Basically just did a variation of "matching and mirroring".
When you match and mirror, people feel connected to you, even if you don't agree with them. It's crazy.
Freaks me out, tbh. Here I want to think people are rational and individuals, yet all you have to do is copy a few gestures and they change their behaviour immediately.
Which is all well and good, but so far it's directionless.
I need to be able to match and mirror only the positive stuff (or only the stuff I like?) and not the bad struff. Hoping there's a key to influence people in there.
We'll see.
One thing my brother has shown me is that people can take notice of and try to get on your good side/impress you/connect with you even if you are very different.
I'm puzzled as to why girls are not this aggressive in their interactions with me, and what caused my brother to start doing this. The SOB may have amplified it, but it was there since a few months ago. He got more and more like this.
