10-02-2017, 02:15 PM
(10-02-2017, 11:21 AM)Plouf Wrote: Ehhh, since when women initiate ?
The only girls I know who initiate are "hookers" or desperate.
I'm not experienced but I'm not oblivious to the external world either.
I've seen multiple girls gave up on their crush or person they like very much just because they didn't want to initiate at all.
That's so common I wonder if we live in the same world.
There are plenty of reasons why girls don't initiate, just like there are several reasons why a guy might not initiate. Some girls have approach anxiety, just like some guys. Some girls find their crush intimidating, just like some guys. The male object of a female's crush can actually be intimidating toward nearly everyone, just like some female objects of male crushes. And so on.
I won't dispute that some girls in some situations don't initiate. Neither will I dispute that some guys in some situations don't initiate. But some is not all. And, if you change the situation (or the girl), you may get a different result. Just like if you change the situation or the guy. And the object of the crush actually being approachable, welcoming, relaxed, affable, personable, and easygoing usually helps a lot.
