Detox Ain't A Rental: myth on UD

[myth]

I relate to this, me using UD now myself. I'll be in a conversation, and a growing voice in me is saying "I DON'T believe that/THINK that...." and it's pleasantly uncomfortable. Like my truth is getting louder than my lies, and it's challenging me to be real, to be honest.

Not entirely sure how to interpret what you mean from the multiple possibilities.

For example, it sounds like you may be getting through the lies by way of what NLP-ers call "meta questions." I've been using those questions for decades at work with co-workers, since at least 90% of the requests that I receive are "Can you build G to solve F?" when they really mean "Can you help me solve A, because F solving E solving D solving C solving B solving A isn't working?" They've decided that G is the solution to F while ignoring that that A is the only thing that they really need solved. They forget that they don't actually need B-F (or G) and that A was the only problem that actually mattered, Find a better B, and you don't need C-G.

Or maybe you're talking about seeing that you'd bought into others ideas without deciding whether another idea was a better fit for you first.

Or maybe your own values are getting louder where your values and others' values conflict.

Or maybe you'd previously convinced yourself that something was something else, when it wasn't.

And so on. Not completely sure how you mean truth/lies here. But it does sound like a huge step for you, nonetheless Congrats!

UD is turning some tables on me. Even now, sitting here at home--all inside work is going on in me.

Yeah, I'm very impressed by its (apparent?) ability to be a different sub to different people. I almost wonder if that will give it a whole new quality for every run, depending on which point a person's life is currently at. More so than other subs, I mean, as they all do that to some extent.

Thanks for sharing your experiences here. I'm checking your progress from time to time, for my benefit :-)

The gratitude and checking is mutual.