Quote:At 48 y/o, my Mom and I had a DNA test done to find out about our health. 6 months later the company informed me they found my biological father. His wife contacted me, told me she had 5 children with him and insisted that I stay out of their lives!!
I had no interest in meeting them in person, to begin with, so no biggie. I got his medical information as my Doctor advised me and have not heard from them since.
Had they wanted to meet, I would have been open to inviting them to my home or fly out to their home 5 hours away.
I wish you well, I hope you meet your biological mum in person!!
Wow.. that is a harsh thing to have dealt with. Hope you managed to make peace with it.
Quote:Wow. I don't know what to say about all that Ben but it sounds like it went really well!
I'm trying to reconnect with my own family (the same family I've had my whole life, but just drifted apart) so this is inspiring to me.
Thanks man. I undestand that definately, the cool thing is that this opened thing up with my adoptive parents too. Usually i'd avoid telling them much, would want to be left alone, not really share openly. Well with starting to open up i've also noticed I want to share with them again, I rang them up last night after meeting everyone to share it with them too.
Quote:Man, great that it went so well. Hope meeting her will be also great.
Thanks man, it was.. i'm pretty tired so I may post it in the next few days if I don't tonight.
Quote:Much respect.
Heh, the DMSI ver. A healing doesn't mess around, does it now? Big Grin I don't write as detailed a journal as you do, but I've been dealing with issues of similar weight and import for me, personally, lately, and have been driven to resolve some even heavier stuff circa 2 months back.
Thanks, glad you're getting something from it too.
For this healing.. though it took some time to get to this point i'm grateful for DMSI. It's certainly gone in a direction I didn't expect.
