07-29-2017, 05:17 AM
Your feelings of changing to E2 is resistance, quite certain of it.
Keep going with your inner bonding thing, but I would also say to start again with putting yourself in situations with girls and act like you have already overcome the abandonment issues.
You need to put belief in yourself and DMSI that it will overcome the abandonment issues, and not go only into "healing mode".
In order to know where you actually are in the process, you need to get yourself into a setting (meet girls) where you will receive responses from where you actually are with your problem, that will help you by giving you "more to work with". Else you're gonna be shooting bullets in the dark, you just happen to know in what direction the target is.
The thoughts coming up about "you're not gonna be good enough without DMSI" is also resistance which I think you already figured out, but just wanted to point it out anyway
Keep going with your inner bonding thing, but I would also say to start again with putting yourself in situations with girls and act like you have already overcome the abandonment issues.
You need to put belief in yourself and DMSI that it will overcome the abandonment issues, and not go only into "healing mode".
In order to know where you actually are in the process, you need to get yourself into a setting (meet girls) where you will receive responses from where you actually are with your problem, that will help you by giving you "more to work with". Else you're gonna be shooting bullets in the dark, you just happen to know in what direction the target is.
The thoughts coming up about "you're not gonna be good enough without DMSI" is also resistance which I think you already figured out, but just wanted to point it out anyway
