07-23-2017, 06:39 PM
(07-23-2017, 05:15 PM)4Kingdoms Wrote:(07-23-2017, 01:04 PM)Snoop Wrote: My view of women has changed over the course of my year long run of DMSI. First, I was hit upon by two women, who were in LTR. One of these had her kids in tow and the other was with her boyfriend. These incidents and numerous others made me realize that women will look at any opportunities to upgrade. That special unicorn that will stick with you through thick and thin just doesn't exist.
Experiencing this has made me "seen" why women that get so much attention from men become numb to the attention.
(07-23-2017, 01:04 PM)Snoop Wrote: On another note, the red head that was snipped at church has been back after an absence of 4 to 5 months. She's still sitting near me, but the spark just isn't there. I've purposefully been ignoring her. She will have to work a lot harder to get my interest back. I will complete my two week stint on version A next friday and go back on version B for another two week stint.
I've read about this behavior in other DMSI journals and wonder if the woman is bouncing off our energy. You act cold, she responds in kind. That initial attraction you/I felt, in the beginning, is no longer the same for you/me.
On your second point, I will test your hypothesis and see if she reacts differently by using a different approach next time I see her.
INTJ