07-16-2017, 08:42 PM
(07-14-2017, 04:58 AM)Benjamin Wrote:Quote:No idea what you are talking about with your 1000 steps example. That is not what I have seen at all.
Of course i'm exaggerating to show what I mean.. but all this A1, A2, A3 crap is way too much.
Benjamin, pretty much your whole reply made sense. Breaking down the seduction process into 3 main steps made sense
Atttact -> Build comfort -> Close
I feel that breaking these 3 steps in 3 smaller steps may be overkill too. but then, it may be intended to troubleshoot. If you are stuck somewhere and can pinpoint it exactly to, lets say A3, you can reread A3 chapter and find ways to improve your sticking points.
That being said, I'm not buying the whole thing neither. For example, I feel that sometime, resorting to gimmicks to DHV because what these guys did was only picking-up chicks for a big chunk of their lives isn't something that I buy into.
A better way to DHV is to actually BE HV by doing something amazing out of your life. This is more in line with what you are going to find inside the Way of the Superior Man of David Deida.
But I know no else better than MM to describe the social dynamics of groups and men/women than him. Just adapt the implementation to be in sync with your core values and this makes his book an interesting read...