Life of a Colossus - DMSI v3.1 A

[lano1106]

[quote='SargeMaximus' pid='173962' dateline='1500013751']

If one were to go to him (Mystery) for teaching (which I wouldn't recommend) you have to read into the context.

For example - Negging
A LOT of people tried this out after reading "The Game".
By saying a negative thing about a girl they would get slightly more interest in you? - Well, most guys who tried this removed the context and thought it would work on every girl possible. Mystery and the PUA guys negged girls who were in High-end clubs, celebrities and such. They were confident enough to know they deserved this and that. But your high-school crush likely didn't have the same confidence as these girls, hence your "negging technique" failed.

Yeah. I'm aware that many peoples trying to neg got catastrophic results. This is a part that is very misunderstood.

A lot of people failing with negging just come out as plain insulting. To pull it out correctly you need enough social intelligence to calibrate to the situation. You also need to understand what you are trying to accomplish. The goal of negging is to make her perceive you as higher value than herself. That is the only way a woman will be attracted to you sexually.

You need to gauge if it is required. It usually is with very very beautiful women that you cold approach. She needs to get down from the pedestal that other men have put her on. That is not required if you have solid social proof through common acquaintances or if you talk with a more average woman.

I suspect that this might be rarely required for a DMSI user.

I'm by no mean very good myself at negging. Not my style but I accomplish the negging goal with playful indifference. I tease and catch her attention, then I make her work for more of my attention. IOW, you set in place the frame that she is chasing for your attention...