07-13-2017, 10:01 PM
(07-13-2017, 05:24 PM)Benjamin Wrote: Hahaha Mystery Method is BY FAR one of the worst things you can do and will **** you up, make you overanaylze way more. It's all about overcomplicating things massively, I once watched one of his dvd's for like 10 minutes and it did my head in with his 1000s of little steps.
He's basically like "ok to kiss a girl you need to take these 52 steps, move closer, move a little closer, take another step, look at her, cough, take a few more steps, now you're close to her, move your lips in a millimetre, and another millemetra then sit your lips on her lips, move your tongue and your upper lip, move your lower lip and put it against her lips."
**** that.
$10 is a complete waste of money for his crap, pretty expensive toilet paper.
If you want more then there's also the classic book 'the game' that shows how ***** up mystery is.
With your tendency to already overanaylze everything Sarge, mystery method especially will make things worse for you.
No idea what you are talking about with your 1000 steps example. That is not what I have seen at all.
Attacking the merit of the work based on the personal issues the guy have isn't something that should be done. You shouldn't mix both. Someone can be close to be crazy yet produce something marvelous.
Mystery has a very Cartesian spirit. This is paradoxical considering that seduction is essentially to induce emotions. What amaze me with his work is that he broke down seduction into a scientific model with steps and diagrams and so on.
IMHO, this is the most predictable method to get results. He broke the process into a science. Nobody can say that it doesn't work as it would be like saying that marketing and advertisement don't sell.
Salesmen have flowcharts that they follow and those who are good at following their charts, sells more. This is measurable and undeniable.
That being said, because it reads like an engineering textbook, I agree that there is risk to overanalyse or to stumble into details and minutia.
And also note that you need a minimum of charisma, social intelligence and skills to make it work. I'm assuming that by being a DMSI user, you qualify.
There is probably a good and a bad way to read the book. The good way is probably to read it cover to cover to get the big picture. Maybe take notes about few interesting snippet such as the 3 second rule. then forget about it go in the field and have fun.
And once and only once you collected referential experience, you should return to the method and be stunned about how accurate it is with your experience and now focus on few elements that you dont master yet. But at this point you should already have results. Mastering every aspects of the method is for advanced users.
That being said, a lot of the text is to cover cornerstones and as a DMSI user, there will be a lot of shortcuts making way easier.
Demonstrating High Value and receiving IOIs should happen effortlessly... If you have those, the rest is easy. You don't need that much steps at all...
