07-03-2017, 12:15 PM
(07-03-2017, 08:14 AM)chaosvrgn Wrote: In other words, affected side resistance. WTF is up with all this "empathize with the women" shit? We're running a sub designed to reverse the tables, make women chase us instead of them and all of a sudden, we're finding moral issues with that? "We need to CAAAARE about them more." Wha-?
I assume this is directed at me.
I'm reading a book atm about Trust and that's one of the things he advocates. (that you care about what's in the other person's best interest).
However, he also says you don't HAVE to care about others. trust can be accomplished by owning the fact that you don't care (you suggested this to me once) however, there is a "tax" to be paid on that which he gets into later.
Anyhow, even your story about the girl and her ex boyfriend indicates a high level of trust (he told her about the other girls).
Anyhow, everything I'm considering atm is being filtered through the trust thing.
If it turns out I'm wrong, great. I can go back to being a selfish, sociopath. But if it turns out Trust works the way they say it does, I have much to work on.
Because being the caring type is a higher return of investment.
We shall see.
(07-03-2017, 08:14 AM)chaosvrgn Wrote: Regardless of the underlying reason, it's affected side resistance and we need to get around that. But, I imagine most of the people talking about this shit have never seen what a woman's sexuality looks like when it's unleashed. When she finds you attractive enough, she doesn't give a damn about whether you care about her or not. That's a myth that women need an "emotional connection" to have sex -- one that they've hidden behind for eons to artificially inflate the price of p*ssy.
Yeah I'm not saying they need emotional connection, I'm saying they need to trust you.
(07-03-2017, 08:14 AM)chaosvrgn Wrote: She actually confessed to me that she had a long-time boyfriend that started cheating on her and thought that since he openly told her that he was going to sleep with other women, it was okay. Apparently, I reminded her of him. Whatever. Like I said, she never quite rejected me. She curled up in my arms multiple time, moaned as I kissed her neck and rubbed her chest and thighs. This is classic "good girl game."
Trust. >>
