Sorry Travis for derailing your journal, but just want to chime in.
This is your problem.
DMSI is a life changer, that is for sure. But when the opportunity presents itself, STRIKE. And if there is no opportunity, create one, then STRIKE.
And if you cannot create one, STRIKE.
DMSI IS a life changer, but you yourself are still a massive influence.
Listen, man, you flirt and you flirt and you flirt. But that gets boring. Imagine if a woman flirted with you, in the same way everyday, but you cannot do anything about it - only she can. But she doesn't take any decisive movements.
And she just keeps flirting and flirting.
That would suck balls (not really, more like give you blue balls
)
You NEED to TAKE ACTION.
You are doing amazingly by asking women out. Amazing work on that man. But, when you actually get there, you have to touch her, you have to keep the eye contact, you need to get close and feel the tension. When you can withstand this tension and KEEP piling it on her, you will have her in your grasp.
First you create this sexual tension, then you withdraw.. then you increase the tension again. And finally, you need to pull the trigger; because you know what the difference is between a good guy (not nice, good) and a good guy that gets all the chicks?
Kino, escalation, sexual tension, pulling the trigger.
That's it.
And if you cannot believe in body language (for whatever weird reason), then just pull the trigger. If she isn't pushing you back when you flirt, take that as a sign to just do it. If she is neutral, pull the trigger.
I understand you have this blockage, this belief that it will get you in trouble.. but IT IS KEEPING YOU FROM BEING THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF.
Pull the fucking trigger.
(06-26-2017, 10:43 AM)CatMan Wrote: Hopefully as things are patched as the versions progress, things will get better and more clear and results will be more stable across the board.
This is your problem.
DMSI is a life changer, that is for sure. But when the opportunity presents itself, STRIKE. And if there is no opportunity, create one, then STRIKE.
And if you cannot create one, STRIKE.
DMSI IS a life changer, but you yourself are still a massive influence.
Listen, man, you flirt and you flirt and you flirt. But that gets boring. Imagine if a woman flirted with you, in the same way everyday, but you cannot do anything about it - only she can. But she doesn't take any decisive movements.
And she just keeps flirting and flirting.
That would suck balls (not really, more like give you blue balls
)You NEED to TAKE ACTION.
You are doing amazingly by asking women out. Amazing work on that man. But, when you actually get there, you have to touch her, you have to keep the eye contact, you need to get close and feel the tension. When you can withstand this tension and KEEP piling it on her, you will have her in your grasp.
First you create this sexual tension, then you withdraw.. then you increase the tension again. And finally, you need to pull the trigger; because you know what the difference is between a good guy (not nice, good) and a good guy that gets all the chicks?
Kino, escalation, sexual tension, pulling the trigger.
That's it.
And if you cannot believe in body language (for whatever weird reason), then just pull the trigger. If she isn't pushing you back when you flirt, take that as a sign to just do it. If she is neutral, pull the trigger.
I understand you have this blockage, this belief that it will get you in trouble.. but IT IS KEEPING YOU FROM BEING THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF.
Pull the fucking trigger.
