06-25-2017, 08:49 AM
(06-25-2017, 07:41 AM)RTBoss Wrote:(06-25-2017, 07:33 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Not tryin' to kick you while you're down, but it's good to know that what they say about marriage is true.
If I were you, I'd get a side dish.
What, that married men get more sex over a lifetime than single men? That's true.
Of course, there are deviations to that statistic. I'd say, if you know sex is going to be a cornerstone for you, find a relationship with a woman (or women, plural, lol) who is on your level. Trying to get them to change for you is difficult at best.
My wife has said multiple times, with the intention of me "reading between the lines," that if I need a side dish, to make sure it happens in a way that will never involve or embarrass her. I'm not sure I'd ever go there, but if this program can't get her to where I need her to be, I'm not sure I'll have much of a choice. I refuse to be miserable (or make her miserable b/c I'm miserable), but I'm not going to trade my family for the "chance" of finding a new woman just for sex. Having a legit mistress, who has no strings or need for a relationship, would be the only way to go in that case.
Whatever you ultimately choose to do Brother, I would say to you to remember that it doesn't mean you love your wife or family any less. Sometimes, life just happens in certain ways and when you need to scratch an itch, you need to scratch an itch. At the end of the day though, it will only ever be an itch that you scratched, and nothing more than that.
