06-21-2017, 02:15 PM
Thanks, guys. Stress is clouding my vision, so your comments are very helpful.
After going through the last week, I'm still carrying all that stress with me, and the only way I can decompress and rejuvenate is by isolating myself in a place of comfort (home). I can't do that right now, because my mother-in-law is staying with us. She is Type A (CAPITAL A), and she's turning my house upside down cleaning (going through MY stuff) and "doing" and she stresses me the fuck out. My wife, on the other hand, needs her mom and therefore wants her here, but I am having an insanely hard time. Well, I set boundaries, and MIL doesn't like it. Wife doesn't like it, but tough shit. I live here - my house, my rules. But it's stress I don't need.
So thanks again, your support is uplifting.
After going through the last week, I'm still carrying all that stress with me, and the only way I can decompress and rejuvenate is by isolating myself in a place of comfort (home). I can't do that right now, because my mother-in-law is staying with us. She is Type A (CAPITAL A), and she's turning my house upside down cleaning (going through MY stuff) and "doing" and she stresses me the fuck out. My wife, on the other hand, needs her mom and therefore wants her here, but I am having an insanely hard time. Well, I set boundaries, and MIL doesn't like it. Wife doesn't like it, but tough shit. I live here - my house, my rules. But it's stress I don't need.
So thanks again, your support is uplifting.