06-09-2017, 11:35 AM
(06-09-2017, 10:20 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(06-09-2017, 08:30 AM)Mr. Anderson Wrote: And regarding asking questions, it's not that I didn't want, there was really NOTHING in my mind I could ask.
I understand. I'm the same way. What works for me is asking basic questions and then improving from there. So I could ask "what do you do?" and she could say "I'm a secretary" and then I'd let my imagination go wild
Me: "ooh... so you like to wear short skirts and glasses?"
Just gotta go with it and say random/dumb shit sometimes. Just like with my hairdresser, sometimes just going for it is what woirks (like the first kiss I got. Totally didn't believe I'd get it, but went for it anyhow).
Basically belief is not a prerequisite.
That's a good idea, I should make a list with things I can say and memorize it just to have something to begin with. And with some practice we should come to some results.
In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not.