(05-10-2017, 09:22 AM)Rayhon Wrote: internally I'm going through allot right now.
I have a fractured hand I'm waiting for it to get better and start lifting hard again.
I don't have oneitis, but I really really miss and want to be with Brunette 3 from my work.
A week or two ago she liked a picture of my new car that I posted on Facebook.
This tells me she's at least a little interested.
VERY little at least, the last thing I did was ask her out and got rejected again because she said she's "Hey i'm seeing someone remember, that sounds like a date|
But a week or so after that she liked my photo of my new car so that tells me its not comletely over. (i doubt she would like ANY photo of mine if she wasn't at least slightly interested)
That being said, I haven't talked to her since the rejection and I don't plan on talking to her until at least a few months.
I'm going to get my body back to 175lbs (my max weight I ever was) I'm 153 right now. (5 foot 6 or 7)
I'm going to get a new wardrobe, meet other women potentially and focus on myself.
When I do these things and better myself and elevate myself to her level. Then I have a much higher chance of getting with her.
And if not her, another version of her. There will always be a women that comes around that I really like (though it happens rarely for me)..
So i must always strive to be the best version of myself.
I have one women who I had a [Sexually graphic comment - unsuitable language. Moderators take note] from 3 years ago msg me and we had a date planned, but I cancelled on her because I heard she bange 3 people I know and that turns me off.
She's messaging me atm but i'm ignoring her.
GUYS, WHAT IS YOUR NUMBER 1 self development videos and article to help inspire yourself to either go out and game women daytime, or gym, or other self development.
Complete Forget and stop hoping for brunette 3 dude. Improve yourself for yourself. Why tf would you kill yourself for her. Get a handle on this fixation for, she liked a picture of your car, it means just that. She also let you down easy, with that nice rejection.
Also notice you said" to get on her level " << you feel inferior to her, that's not good at all.
Is what feel also reality, or what you wish it could be, in general?
