05-05-2017, 02:04 PM
(05-05-2017, 01:32 PM)stratos Wrote: Hey! In my opinion here, she's actually testing you here to see if you view yourself as "boyfriend" material for her (i.e. are you lower status than she originally thought when she viewed you only as quick hookup material). If you want to be viewed only as a sex partner and not boyfriend or friend, then I would suggest declining with a "no thank you" or giving her an excuse when your plans with friends come up. If she's awesome enough to be her boyfriend than by all means hang out around her friends but expect little to no sex and a lot of teasing and frustration. (Again this is just my opinion and experience). As I mentioned before a lot of times when you decline to hang out with women socially who dangled a sex offer, they'll wait 10 days (and a lot of times, exactly 10 days for some weird reason) before coming over late at night just for sex.
Well, afterwards I have been thinking if this might be the test. As I said I am not good at recognize these things. The thing is I have nothing against hanging up with her but of course I would prefer having sex with her. Looks like having both things is not possible the way you said it.
In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not.
