04-29-2017, 05:37 AM
(04-28-2017, 09:53 PM)Shannon Wrote: How about we achieve the results first, and then make it harder to achieve the goal?
I was thinking along the lines of more options for "acceptable" physical sex acts would open the pathway to achieving more results for more people, faster. Having oral sex seems a lot more achievable than intercourse for many - if you're not married, anyway! XD Even just a quick make-out might lead the way to intercourse in-the-moment.
The first time I had sex with my wife, way-back-when, I didn't have any intention of sleeping with her. It with kissing on the couch. Then, it moved to taking off her shirt, and then...you get the picture. It was like baby-steps in the heat of the moment, each step not conceived of or taken until the prior necessary step had been achieved. But then, I guess my subconscious knew that would happen like that the entire time, didn't it? Hers, too.
