The Modern Libertine's diary

[Shannon]

My second serious girlfriend (read: the second one I had sex with) and I were having sex one day, back in the day, and her phone rings. And during sex, she answers it. And starts having this conversation with whoever's on the other end, as if I'm not there and she's not busy! So I stopped, and waited, and asked who it was, and she says, "Nobody." Now I'm insulted and upset, but back then I was also nowhere near as self confident or self realized, so I finished and left.

Come to find out later, it was her ex boyfriend, whom she was screwing behind my back.

Ever since then, I'm about as prone to throw her cell phone in a canal if she answers it during sex as I am to walk out and never talk to her again. And I have done both. NEVER put up with that kind of disrespect. Texting, talking, whatever - if she's with you and you're doing sexual stuff, then she doesn't need to be texting or talking to someone else.