04-22-2017, 01:54 PM
(04-22-2017, 01:42 PM)RTBoss Wrote: I'm sure we all have a "darkside," but to say I'm as normal as a "picket fence" is laughable. My own wife is the epitome of a good girl. Her "darkest" interests are war movies, romance novels that take place in 15-17th century England/Scotland. She doesn't drink to excess, and has never done drugs. She's never cheated, and as far as I know, even had thoughts. I've never caught her in a lie, nor has she ever hidden anything from me. And that's just one example. Then there's my dad and my brother - the Dual Princes of Morality. Anyway, I could go on w/ example after example.
The thing is people barely know how "dark" they are. But the more you try and repress these dark sides, or rather shadows of yourself, the more power they have over you, bursting out from time to time.
The moment you get intimate with these shadows and embrace them but don't let them control you, that's when you get results.
While your experiences with your wife may be that way, I am almost certain she has them, and just like you suppress your shadows. She's suppressing those thoughts/feelings.
For a bit of insight into females regarding sexuality and their fantasies, read "My Secret Garden" by Nancy Friday. Or if you want the "easy stuff" you can always check out "50 Shades of Grey".
