Mystic Pymp on DMSI 2.4→2.5→3.0.1A→3.1A/B→3.2A/B→3.3D→3.3.1D

[Mystic Pymp]

The Russian I went out with on V-Day told me she wanted to off herself too. We bonded over the mutual struggle with it throughout our lives. Not the best way to spend a date, and it certainly didn't help make things sexy.

I talked to my social skills coach about it, he says it's prolly that I'm giving off something that makers people trust me, but that I need to have clear boundaries in that regard.

He says there's nothing wrong with wanting to f*ck the girl and having her either play ball or get out. It's not up to us to be her therapist.

Well, first of all don't stick into a crazy. I've learnt that the hard way.

Secondly I'm not sure if I understand you correctly but it sounds like you consider only having contact with females to have sex. I can feel sorry for her and want to help her as simply her friend. And as long as I don't feel used it's perfectly fine. You learn a lot of humility hearing stories like hers.

I'm sorry if I offend you and understood you wrong, but if you consider meeting with women with issues just to f*ck them you've got some serious issues right there. Do I want her? Sure, but I would not "have her either play ball or get out" unless she would start teasing me or using me.

Of course I felt sorry for her. Like I said, we bonded over the suicide thing because I myself have wanted to commit suicide but I tried to show her how you can overcome it. At the same time: I'm not her therapist, so it's not appropriate first date stuff to talk about.

The way I see it: what's wrong with having a fling? We can both take our minds off whatever shit we've been through in the past.

Sometimes people don't need therapists, only people who will listen and care. But yeah, you're right, it must have been awkward.

In my friend's case problem is in the present, not in the past. Simple young adult problems, but shite accumulates and it can reach too high level. So fling would not help her forget, only bring more to the pile.