03-18-2017, 10:30 AM
(03-18-2017, 07:28 AM)Shannon Wrote: I think what you guys are seeing is that in general, women have it easier because guys will approach them all day long. If you already had a situation where women were approaching you all day long, what is DMSI gonna do on top of that?
Well you see, I guess this is where I usually have had real trouble believing that DMSI can work. Because I see this issue in plain sight as well. Why would women approach when they get armies of guys after them? So I'm not sure how DMSI is supposed to work.
For me, when I do chase, they usually get repelled and unattracted because I show interest, or are just not interested. But, when I don't do anything, they don't seem to come towards me either and I seem to be ignored, or they chase other guys who don't seem very into them, which is similar to what I did by not initiating with them and sitting back etc. so that's confusing. Given the societal programming in women, and the fact that if they're even average hot they never need to do anything and everything gets magically handed to them as even an average girl has options WWWAAAYYY beyond the normal man. And that my experience in women approaching me or showing interest to me has been quite lacklustre, I guess this is the crux of the reason I have found DMSI difficult to believe in and that it can do what it is proposed it will be able to do. I'm not sure how all of that can be reversed with it, I guess. That's quite a tall order, and for someone like me who isn't even sure of all the aura/manifestation stuff, it can be even tougher to get behind.
I get the "theory" of it, don't get me wrong. But I've never quite understood HOW in reality this program is actually supposed to do all of that. Taking a guy like me, with that kind of experience, even beyond all the terrible past in need of clearing and healing, and make girls I'm attracted to somehow want me and approach me for sex now. I don't understand how if I think a girl is hot, and my type, then the program fires up for her and makes her approach me for sex. That seems hmm to me, always has, I guess because I don't see how that process clearly works, how things get from "mmm shes hot!" to the sub making her approach me for sex, I don't follow.
I guess I'll have to see.