My wife called from work tonight:
She talked to her coworker, who I see at the gym (GD she's smokin' hot). Apparently, my lifting buddy, who has been hitting on the fitness model, told said FM that his wife is completely OK with him stepping out on his marriage. (Not that the fitness model is...She told him "I have 2 kids, and a husband, and you think this is something that's gonna work - LOL!" but, this must be the conversation they have been having at the gym...)
WOW. This guy is something else.
First and foremost, he was with me when I sniped the girls at the bar in the bloom phase of 3.0.1. He told his wife it was MY idea to go there, when I was there b/c it was HIS idea. I didn't say shit, that's his lie. I did tell my wife. I don't even see what the big deal was, it's just a local Mexican restaurant hotspot. But, his wife is on his ass all the time b/c of his misadventures in TX while training for a firefighter position in the military. They almost divorced, b/c she looked at their mobile account activity and she saw a bunch of TX numbers. When she called them, girls answered. Long-story-short, she took him back, they had another child, and she is suspicious of every action and word. Hell, she's even had some sort of brain cancer the last year, with surgery and treatment at Mayo Clinic, and he's still pullin' this shit. He should have gone through with the divorce, but he's really in the shit now. (Or, should I say, SHE'S in the shit now?)
Clearly, he's up to his same old tricks. He doesn't just keep them from his wife, he keeps them from his friends. "Friends." But, clearly, he isn't very clever. He tries to seduce a woman who is good friends with the wife of her good friend, who just-so-happens to be MY wife - HIS friend. "I heard it through the grape vine," dumbass!
Obviously, my wife hates this dude at this point. Fuel on the fire, he reminds her of her ex - the guy who could schmooze anyone, while cheating on her and abusing her (physically and emotionally). And (not surprisingly) now uses all of this to justify why she's hated him all along - her intuition told her he was bad news. So, either her intuition is spot-on (which, in my experience, it always is), and/or I'm a really honest, good guy. That's what I'm hoping. I mean, I really DO love her with every fiber of my being. I really HAVE NOT cheated on her, nor plan to. I certainly have man-boners for many women, including those I know and those I don't...but, I think I'm getting to the point where I realize that my feelings for my wife and family truly overcome every other primal instinct I have, by having people like this in my life to show me lessons through contrast.
DMSI V3.1 and beyond will certainly tell the tale.
She talked to her coworker, who I see at the gym (GD she's smokin' hot). Apparently, my lifting buddy, who has been hitting on the fitness model, told said FM that his wife is completely OK with him stepping out on his marriage. (Not that the fitness model is...She told him "I have 2 kids, and a husband, and you think this is something that's gonna work - LOL!" but, this must be the conversation they have been having at the gym...)
WOW. This guy is something else.
First and foremost, he was with me when I sniped the girls at the bar in the bloom phase of 3.0.1. He told his wife it was MY idea to go there, when I was there b/c it was HIS idea. I didn't say shit, that's his lie. I did tell my wife. I don't even see what the big deal was, it's just a local Mexican restaurant hotspot. But, his wife is on his ass all the time b/c of his misadventures in TX while training for a firefighter position in the military. They almost divorced, b/c she looked at their mobile account activity and she saw a bunch of TX numbers. When she called them, girls answered. Long-story-short, she took him back, they had another child, and she is suspicious of every action and word. Hell, she's even had some sort of brain cancer the last year, with surgery and treatment at Mayo Clinic, and he's still pullin' this shit. He should have gone through with the divorce, but he's really in the shit now. (Or, should I say, SHE'S in the shit now?)
Clearly, he's up to his same old tricks. He doesn't just keep them from his wife, he keeps them from his friends. "Friends." But, clearly, he isn't very clever. He tries to seduce a woman who is good friends with the wife of her good friend, who just-so-happens to be MY wife - HIS friend. "I heard it through the grape vine," dumbass!
Obviously, my wife hates this dude at this point. Fuel on the fire, he reminds her of her ex - the guy who could schmooze anyone, while cheating on her and abusing her (physically and emotionally). And (not surprisingly) now uses all of this to justify why she's hated him all along - her intuition told her he was bad news. So, either her intuition is spot-on (which, in my experience, it always is), and/or I'm a really honest, good guy. That's what I'm hoping. I mean, I really DO love her with every fiber of my being. I really HAVE NOT cheated on her, nor plan to. I certainly have man-boners for many women, including those I know and those I don't...but, I think I'm getting to the point where I realize that my feelings for my wife and family truly overcome every other primal instinct I have, by having people like this in my life to show me lessons through contrast.
DMSI V3.1 and beyond will certainly tell the tale.
