03-15-2017, 06:27 AM
You do the right things, and this is the natural result. It's how I always end up with multiple females at once, who all know about each other. In fact I always introduce them to each other intentionally and immediately, so there's no imaginary threat to over blow in their mind. If they want to be with me, they have to be in contact with each other regularly as part of my "we must communicate openly and honestly" rule. Whether that means they talk on the phone or we have a communications meeting.
The first step to having a relationship with more than one woman is to determine that you want it, and you are going to have it, and anything else can fall by the wayside. If you are solid enough in this frame, then you can proceed to step 2.
Which is, she must be familiar enough with you that she values you and a relationship with you enough to accept your decision regarding step #1. If you are high enough value to her, she will eventually decide she is willing to accept your decision to see other people, and that is that.
Pretty simple. But you need to be open, honest, and stand your ground. Timing is very important, but NEVER lie to her and never let her imagine you did.
What style and flavor of open relationship is right for you is up to you. But if you stand your ground and ask for what you want, and then demonstrate sufficient value, you will get what you want.
The first step to having a relationship with more than one woman is to determine that you want it, and you are going to have it, and anything else can fall by the wayside. If you are solid enough in this frame, then you can proceed to step 2.
Which is, she must be familiar enough with you that she values you and a relationship with you enough to accept your decision regarding step #1. If you are high enough value to her, she will eventually decide she is willing to accept your decision to see other people, and that is that.
Pretty simple. But you need to be open, honest, and stand your ground. Timing is very important, but NEVER lie to her and never let her imagine you did.
What style and flavor of open relationship is right for you is up to you. But if you stand your ground and ask for what you want, and then demonstrate sufficient value, you will get what you want.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!