03-14-2017, 07:36 AM
(03-14-2017, 05:16 AM)Raz Wrote:(03-14-2017, 05:04 AM)eternity Wrote: I don't want to be involved in the dissolution of a soon to be marriage....
If you really can cause trouble for relationships by being you then there has (a) to be something that is not quite right with the relationship in the first place and (b) your own ethical rules will be put to a test ... which is good, because it will make you grow in enforcing your convictions and beliefs.
Ain't that the truth!!!! Actually, I know for certain blonde girl isn't ready to get married. I know her well enough to know why her last marriage ended up in a stupid situation. I think she said yes this time because she felt obligated to, not because she wants to settle down and get married. Don't get me wrong, the dude is really good to her and I like him very much. But the whole engagement deal seemed more like a formality to me than anything. In a nutshell, it's "we are engaged because we have been dating for 2 years, living together for 1, and this is the next logical step". Even though the "logical steps" are actually indoctrination of societal conditioning, not necessarily what they truly want deep in their hearts.
It's ridiculous. Part of me knows she's gonna end up cheating on him ANYWAY. I really don't want my name branded on that fiasco, but at the same time there's no denying that throughout the ENTIRE time we known each other (we met when I was at stage 3 of AM6 - Jan 2015) there has always been an interesting chemistry between us.
But you're right Raz, it's a test of my personal ethical compass. The implications of getting tied into the mess is not worth the temporary reward of getting my dick wet.
