03-11-2017, 11:31 PM
(This post was last modified: 03-11-2017, 11:39 PM by JackOfHearts.)
(03-11-2017, 09:02 PM)Benjamin Wrote: That post shows you REALLY need Version A. You're taking your own emotional responses to it and attributing it to her being psychic and controlling you. Seriously?
Yeah, even more I would say. It seems like some form of "fanaticism" because he seems to trust completely the subliminal, in this case it was AYP. I think with subliminal you may want to be careful and check rationally/logically what is really happening externally. And not trust that the subliminal is a perfect tool. I say fanaticism what he wrote seems similar to what I have experienced when I used to believe in something with absolute certainty, and this is what is dangerous to do. As if you believe something cannot be false (100% true) then it's hard to change your mind afterwards. This is where you step into dogmatism.
Is this girl really have those power over you Lovebond or you are making this up in your mind? Do you have any concrete proof that she did that ? With manipulation as I had my share of it I always try to find proof, concrete stuff, not guesses, unless you have a pattern that point your toward something concrete it's mostly guesses . This is to avoid paranoia. As far as I read your journal that AYP girl may not even be an AYP but just a normal girl that you thought could be the one, it seems more likely she isn't at least based on what you wrote.