Day 5:
I'm getting increased responses in both directions. I've received aggression, pot shots, being ignored, picked on. I've also seen men trying to be my friend, asking me for advice, introducing themselves. Interestingly enough, those who are being nicer to me are always the higher status guys.
My muay thai coach for example. Was giving me praises all day over my technique. And this dude is a badass alpha type. Cracks coconuts with roundhouse kicks. My BJJ instructor, on the other hand, kinda pissed me off by making a rather unnecessary remark. But he's a "lesser alpha" type. Shorter, introverted, etc. I simply looked at him and said, "okay" after he said it.
There was also this guy in boxing class today (yes, I did three classes back-to-back and I'm regretting it right now because I BE HURTIN' SOMETHING FIERCE, BRING BACK MHS) that tried to AMOG me repeatedly. This really cutesy Latina came in. Hair in pigtails, Deadpool t-shirt, gorgeous brown eyes, beautiful smile, submissive demeanor. We'll call her "K." She totally got sniped -- I felt that "pull" toward her and I know she felt the same. We ended up doing mitt work, switching partners every two minutes. Whenever I got to her, she'd start smiling and giggling and joking with me. Light flirting, nothing hard.
There was this other black dude in the class -- not nearly as talented as I am, but more muscular. He suddenly kept making ridiculous comments toward me. Like, at one point he "taught me how to throw a punch." When he held up the pads, I threw a perfect left jab, right cross, left hook, right uppercut (the basic four piece in boxing, but I've mastered it) and simply said, "like that?"
He was like... "yeah." Later, he walked up with this other dude and starting throwing punches around me -- which I find SO FUCKING IRRITATING -- and was like, yeah man -- I totally just wrecked you right now. I just laughed and kept training. Completely calm demeanor. Didn't give a sh*t. Then, when it was his turn to punch the mitts I was holding, I made sure I showed him how slow his double jab was by throwing the mitts faster than he could punch. The boxing coach made a comment about it and he glared at me.
Then he kept staring at me like I was an enemy, to the point that I stared him down and he finally back down and was like, "bro I'm just playing with you, man."
I was thinking "wtf is this dude's problem" the whole time. Then... like an M. Night Shyamalan movie...
When class was over, he yells out across the damn gym, "K? Baby, what do you want for breakfast?" And I totally lol'd inside. Was like, well now I know where this came from.
After class, I did something that I've NEVER done before. I opened two women just out of the blue. Just started talking to them. Both were receptive and giggly. One of them was the tall black chick that slipped up and called me boo.
It was weird -- I initially felt resisting when talking to her, but like Sarge said, its kinda like the resistance just vanishes and you go on autopilot. As soon as I started speaking to her, she sat down on the ground, spread her legs and leaned back to expose her chest. And I was like, lawdy have mercy I just wanna fuck this chick. We were chatting for awhile and I had her cracking up about the change in the Muay Thai schedule from 8a to 6a and how my black @$$ wasn't going to be there. I can barely make the 7a BJJ class. Anyway, I said my adieus to her. I'm going to start moving in on her. She's a kickass chick from what I see. She did four damn classes today. I did three and I'm about to cry like a lil' b*tch.
The other chick was this thick, sexy white girl that was yawning in class. I made a joke about that and she ended up cracking up. We chatted for a bit, but I rolled out. Slow burn... slow burn.
This sub is awesome.
(03-07-2017, 05:27 AM)Travis Wrote: Several guys are reporting increased agression from other men on this new version. Thats one of the strongest indicators that the program is working IMO. I've noticed an increase in deference from men myself.
I'm getting increased responses in both directions. I've received aggression, pot shots, being ignored, picked on. I've also seen men trying to be my friend, asking me for advice, introducing themselves. Interestingly enough, those who are being nicer to me are always the higher status guys.
My muay thai coach for example. Was giving me praises all day over my technique. And this dude is a badass alpha type. Cracks coconuts with roundhouse kicks. My BJJ instructor, on the other hand, kinda pissed me off by making a rather unnecessary remark. But he's a "lesser alpha" type. Shorter, introverted, etc. I simply looked at him and said, "okay" after he said it.
There was also this guy in boxing class today (yes, I did three classes back-to-back and I'm regretting it right now because I BE HURTIN' SOMETHING FIERCE, BRING BACK MHS) that tried to AMOG me repeatedly. This really cutesy Latina came in. Hair in pigtails, Deadpool t-shirt, gorgeous brown eyes, beautiful smile, submissive demeanor. We'll call her "K." She totally got sniped -- I felt that "pull" toward her and I know she felt the same. We ended up doing mitt work, switching partners every two minutes. Whenever I got to her, she'd start smiling and giggling and joking with me. Light flirting, nothing hard.
There was this other black dude in the class -- not nearly as talented as I am, but more muscular. He suddenly kept making ridiculous comments toward me. Like, at one point he "taught me how to throw a punch." When he held up the pads, I threw a perfect left jab, right cross, left hook, right uppercut (the basic four piece in boxing, but I've mastered it) and simply said, "like that?"
He was like... "yeah." Later, he walked up with this other dude and starting throwing punches around me -- which I find SO FUCKING IRRITATING -- and was like, yeah man -- I totally just wrecked you right now. I just laughed and kept training. Completely calm demeanor. Didn't give a sh*t. Then, when it was his turn to punch the mitts I was holding, I made sure I showed him how slow his double jab was by throwing the mitts faster than he could punch. The boxing coach made a comment about it and he glared at me.
Then he kept staring at me like I was an enemy, to the point that I stared him down and he finally back down and was like, "bro I'm just playing with you, man."
I was thinking "wtf is this dude's problem" the whole time. Then... like an M. Night Shyamalan movie...
When class was over, he yells out across the damn gym, "K? Baby, what do you want for breakfast?" And I totally lol'd inside. Was like, well now I know where this came from.
After class, I did something that I've NEVER done before. I opened two women just out of the blue. Just started talking to them. Both were receptive and giggly. One of them was the tall black chick that slipped up and called me boo.
It was weird -- I initially felt resisting when talking to her, but like Sarge said, its kinda like the resistance just vanishes and you go on autopilot. As soon as I started speaking to her, she sat down on the ground, spread her legs and leaned back to expose her chest. And I was like, lawdy have mercy I just wanna fuck this chick. We were chatting for awhile and I had her cracking up about the change in the Muay Thai schedule from 8a to 6a and how my black @$$ wasn't going to be there. I can barely make the 7a BJJ class. Anyway, I said my adieus to her. I'm going to start moving in on her. She's a kickass chick from what I see. She did four damn classes today. I did three and I'm about to cry like a lil' b*tch.
The other chick was this thick, sexy white girl that was yawning in class. I made a joke about that and she ended up cracking up. We chatted for a bit, but I rolled out. Slow burn... slow burn.
This sub is awesome.