12-11-2011, 07:00 AM
Quote:Ben what you say is the old credit catch 22. to get credit you need credit. I could always drop my standards and go out with the chicks with ugly personalities who don't bring anything to the interaction. just to get laid...
on a side note i did have one girl i know randomly write me and ask me to "make her horny"
Hmm, i'd personally sleep with them if your attracted to them, I get that you want someone you can spend more time with, but getting that experience is good. If they know it's nothing more than physical and agree, then it's a good way to get experience.
As for the girl writing you.. that is a great opportunity, for a girl to contact you saying that she is very interested.
Sounds like your talking online, what I did was practice describing what I wanted to do to girls and leading them through it by describing it. Just write some yourself first, and as I said before, feeling and imagining it inside and communicating what that is to them is the important part. Start subtle, being close to her.. kissing her on the neck.. and slowly build on it.
And try that online with some girls you don't know, like in chatrooms or whatever to see what reaction you get. I have had several say "wow I wish you lived near me, you are the perfect guy" etc..
I just wish I was able to do it that well face to face with girls i've just met. I've used it a few times from dating sites, describing stuff and it's gone quite well when I ended up meeting them.
-Ben
