12-08-2011, 08:33 PM
Hey Tony,
I am having a feeling that your saying "I didn't buy it for sex" because there may be some guilt or resistance to that. Sometimes we don't admit this stuff to ourselves.
That's what my intuition is telling me. It may help you to think about it in a different way.
Sometimes we pretend we don't want that because it doesn't 'feel' or 'sound' right. I definately brought it for better sex and more sex with better quality girls.
And what goes with that is the personal growth. Why not both?
Have you been talking to girls? It's not until you do that and actually ask them out and see them or whatever that it happens. I fell into the trap of not doing that for a while and just hoping for it.
It's funny when i'm not seeing any girls I have alot of motivation and talk to heaps, when I just have 1 I lose most of that motivation, which is unfortunate because I want to see more than 1 at a time. I hope SM will work on that.
-Ben
I am having a feeling that your saying "I didn't buy it for sex" because there may be some guilt or resistance to that. Sometimes we don't admit this stuff to ourselves.
That's what my intuition is telling me. It may help you to think about it in a different way.
Sometimes we pretend we don't want that because it doesn't 'feel' or 'sound' right. I definately brought it for better sex and more sex with better quality girls.
And what goes with that is the personal growth. Why not both?
Have you been talking to girls? It's not until you do that and actually ask them out and see them or whatever that it happens. I fell into the trap of not doing that for a while and just hoping for it.
It's funny when i'm not seeing any girls I have alot of motivation and talk to heaps, when I just have 1 I lose most of that motivation, which is unfortunate because I want to see more than 1 at a time. I hope SM will work on that.
-Ben
