02-13-2017, 07:52 AM
(02-11-2017, 06:02 PM)Shannon Wrote: First, let's take these words "blame" and "fault". The reason you have some of this issue is the frame you're using. There's no blame or fault. We are discussing a situation in which you are frustrated at the outcome of using a subliminal.
Second, let's consider that you consciously and you subconsciously are not the same. You consciously can desperately want the result, while you subconsciously can be dead set against it. This is why a lot of people who are overweight stay that way in spite of all their conscious efforts to change.
Consciously, you may be trying. Consciously, you may be taking your share of the responsibility. And that's all well and good. But there is some part of you that is choosing to not cooperate. Choosing to not execute the script. That part of you is still part of you. And that means that as frustrating as it may be for you consciously, you are still responsible for any success or failure you have with one of these programs.
That's why when people thank me for getting them the results, I remind them that I didn't do it, they did.
You have to take responsibility for your choices and actions, even if they are subconscious, because otherwise that part of you can do whatever it wants and get away with it. Hidden Mystic Pymp screws everything up, public Mystic Pymp says it's because Shannon's technology doesn't work. Hidden Mystic Pymp is responsible for the outcome, but is not being held accountable. Which perpetuates the situation.
Consciously taking responsibility for your subconscious choices and actions and their results isn't fun, but it's what adults do. It's also how to make change happen regardless. And that is what we are after.
I am working on this issue so we can make it something that gets dealt with automatically and subconsciously, but until and unless I figure this out... you still have to take personal responsibility for your choices, and your actions, and your results - even if they are subconscious - because otherwise you have no hope of making a change that gets you the results you want.
I'm not blaming you. I'm not saying you're at fault. I am telling you the facts... and sometimes, them's not fun to hear. But they are the facts. And if you want to help yourself get the results while I try to figure out how to automate the process... you have to do what I told you needed to be done.
You're getting worse results because some part of you is giving less cooperation.
Thanks for this post Shannon. It clears a lot of misunderstanding.
I'm a stonewaller most of the time as well, or just way too slow accepting the script. I realize, a lot of the time, I'm stubborn consciously when I'm told to do something, but once I'm done feeling butthurt about it, I'll execute it willingly.
Anything you recommend doing in order to take responsibility for our subconscious choices? I'm working on it consciously and I think I'm getting pretty good at it, but how to do it for our subconscious choices as well? Is it a matter of time, or could we be taking conscious action to help the process?
I see you've already made improvements with the modules that address this since your post, but I'm willing to do whatever it takes to work on it consciously as well, if possible.
Thanks again!
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