alpha 4

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A while back I used to be on Tinder and it frightened me how promiscuous women are. Women were so ready to hook up and it was so confronting because my whole world view has been that it's difficult to pick up women and that women who are promiscuous are low value and those who are not are high value. I realised just how much and how readily men and women fuck. In the end I deleted Tinder because I couldn't accept this reality. I'm trying to find the women who don't spread their legs so easily.

My ex jumped in bed with a few guys she met on tinder soon after we broke up and let the relationship burn. I guess I'm afraid of meeting another woman who will rather do this than invest in fixing the relationship when it breaks.

It's not women. It's humans. It's human nature to be sexual. It's human nature to be promiscuous.

The hunt goes like this for males:

I want the best, sexiest most reproductively capable and suitable and healthy female, but I want her to be mine and only mine so I know all her offspring came from my seed. But I also want to **** and impregnate every other woman who will let me **** and impregnate her on the side. Therefore, I want the female I choose as my primary to be hard to get and hard to get for sex, because the harder I have to work to get her, the more likely she is to be faithful.

The flaw in that thinking is... females typically have several males each wanting to have sex with them, expressing interest, courting them, offering them bribes for sex and sex itself. Even the ugly ones! They therefore have all the sex they want, and that means... since she typically likes sex as much as guys do, and it's constantly being offered and thrown in her face, that - especially in today's "empowered female" mindset - female hypergamy is accepted and normal. She's going to **** every guy she wants to, and the guys will just have to deal with it.

It is the males who are making this possible for her. She's just accepting the bribes and pleasure because she can. If males had more self control and self respect, they would not be throwing sex and bribes at any and every woman they could find who will hold still long enough for them to try to ****.

Yes, that's right: PUA is responsible for female hypergamy as much as is society being permissive towards women's hypergamy, and as much as the individual females who are actually riding the resulting carousel.

That, anyway, is why you're not comfortable with "easy pussy". It is also human nature, because she wants the best seed and he wants the best garden to plant it in. Not resistance.

In stages 1 and 2 of AM, there is nothing specifically about changing your beliefs regarding women except that you will refuse to let them walk on, disrespect, take advantage of or abuse you.