01-31-2017, 04:41 PM
(01-31-2017, 04:19 PM)ReeZoX Wrote:(01-31-2017, 03:38 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Not giving a f*ck is why I'm a virgin.
Giving a **** is why I got makeouts and numbers and female attention etc.
Hope that clears things up.
I am not arguing what has given you results or not. I am simply trying to explain the concept of NGAF. From my POV, you've seemingly understood the term NGAF and possibly the whole meaning behind it.
Which I also did when I first heard of the term NGAF.
Whether you disagree or agree with is up to you, I've put my cards on the table
However, let me ask you a question. It's not for you to answer on the forum but rather to think about and you don't need to let me know of anything else.
When you didn't give a f*ck. Did you actually approach girls or try to get anywhere with them, were you okay with the outcome, no matter what happened? Or is it the latest time when you've given a f*ck that you've approached women and therefore received more success? Simply by taking that goddamn first step?
NGAF is not about avoiding to take the first step
NGAF is about taking the first step and being okay with whatever is thrown at you.
I think I know what you mean. Perhaps I'm not entirely talking about giving a f*ck so much as I'm talking about performance.
Performance refinement and improvement is what I'm talking about when I say that giving a f*ck has given me results.
When I don't give a f*ck, I do not care to improve, because I don't give a f*ck.
I honestly don't see what's so hard to understand about that.
But I think you're talking about doing your best to get the girl and not caring if things don't work out.
In which case yes, I agree with you. THAT would be helpful, so long as we give a f*ck to do everything in our power to be at our most attractive. Give a f*ck about improving and doing everything in OUR power to get the girl, NGAF about things we can't control.
If that's what you're saying, then I agree.
However, even other people's reactions to us is in our control, especially when you get into persuasion and stuff. So NGAF doesn't extend very far in my experience.