01-31-2017, 10:42 AM
(01-31-2017, 10:16 AM)robstar Wrote:Quote:You know CatMan I was agreeing with you till you brought up that "full cup" BS. Seriously. That mindset is toxiuc. Why? Because if you're full you don't eat. That's why.
It's the stupidest mindset I've ever come across and I know where you got it from. I don't want it in DMSI. Save that kind of "peace" for E3 and the like.
AGAIN DO NOT BE ASHAMED OF WANTING WOMEN!!!!! That whole "your cup is already full" crap is just another way to make yourself feel good about NOT getting what you want.
Aside from that point, I agree with everything you said
Sorry dude I gotta strongly disagree here. Most of my life I was puzzled by why chicks I wasn't attracted to were always into me and the chicks I really wanted weren't. And it wasn't that those chicks I wanted had different brain chemistry because their faces were prettier. It was because I wanted them so much that I was completely stifled around them, it made my microbehaviors unattractive, my sense of humor vanished, and I could not keep a strong frame. It wasn't till I started dropping the over-valuation and inflated importance and stated filling myself with an abundance mentality that this started changing and I started hooking up with hotter girls that I was really attracted to. Now I'm not fully there yet especially in terms of retaining those girls (oneitis can be a bitch), but I'm a hell of a lot further ahead and when my mindset is at its most abundant and my "wanting" is not high, I get great results. I think what you fail to realize is that you can have an abundance mindset and be outcome independent AND be filled with raw passionate desire and horniness at the VERY SAME TIME. That is the sweet spot we want to achieve and that is the place girls get literally addicted to you. Saying if you're full you don't eat is not a good analogy, because when you get full you won't be full anymore in a few hours. A better analogy would be, if you were extremely rich and had massive cash flow would you enjoy spending money on new things?
Let's look at you and milf as an example. I would bet good money that as your desire and outcome dependence increased as things progressed your behavior became less attractive. And it is not something you can control by focusing on externals, because that over-importance will break through in weak moments and in your microbehaviors, and and in many instances you will know exactly what you should do, but you will do the opposite.
I disagree. I've only known success when I was trying VERY hard to obtain it. Sales, women, doesn't matter. Only when trying and trying HARD have I managed to succeed. Not giving a f*ck has thus far been the most useless of all techniques or advice I've come across.
I wanted milf and did what I thought I should to get her. If I would have stayed in NGAF lala land, I would never have asked her out and been the fool I've always been. At least I got some makeouts out of it.
But I can tell you 100% I was trying VERY hard to get what I did. NGAF doesn't work for me. Maybe it does for some select few, but it never has for me.
I remember once when the proponent of this idea was trying to convince me of it. He was like "dude haven't you noticed how in sales, after you've met you're quota, how all of a sudden it becomes easy and people just want to buy from you?" I told him "no, actually, it doesn't work that way. Any time I've gotten sales I've had to work for it by managing my state and staying in that "sweet spot" where things work. NGAF is just the place where I drop the mic and let everything go to shit"
In fact, one of the KEY principles of being good in sales is to show the customer that you CARE as in, that you actually GIVE A F*CK.
This is why I caution against this kind of programming.
How about modules to help us stay in the sweet spot instead of modules that get us to NGAF?
High performance, not apathy.
That's my 2 cents.
