01-23-2017, 09:26 AM
(01-14-2017, 02:05 AM)Shannon Wrote: A lot of times, women who are "smoking hot" base their self identity on this fact and the ego gratification they get from the responses of others. If you come along and slap a woman who is used to "always being the hottest one in sight" with a calm, factual, completely natural "I'm simply hotter, and that's just the way it is" body language communication, she's probably going to take it hard.
The more gobsmacked they get, the more you end up generating arousal and interest with such women. I would bet your lack of interest was the autopilot steering you to "being irresistibly sexually attractive" to her by doing what would naturally trigger that reaction in her: displaying value that left hers "in the dust".
Here's a secret. The wealthiest people are frequently the most miserly. Salespeople learn this... so people who are looking for coupons, discounts and sales always fall into the "very low" or "very high" income levels. I saw this a lot as a salesman for multiple companies. We would have guys stroll in with the "I own the world" attitude, and ask for sales, coupons, discounts and favors on everything, even though the total bill was $30 and they were (I was later informed) inevitably millionaires and multi-millionaires.
Salespeople, and especially hot women, are very keenly aware of social status by body language, attitude and actions. That's how you know who to focus on when it comes to making more sales. That's how gold diggers know who to focus on... and sad to say, women seem to be more likely to be gold diggers the hotter they get.
So it's possible that you encountered a stunner who was in possession of a fragile ego and you told her she was beneath you without even knowing it... which is exactly how a genuinely super-high value man would do it. And then you asked about sales, which triggered the "This guy must be rich!" script... and the likely end result was that you effectively "fluster-f*cked" her. She wasn't in control, and she couldn't find a way to gain control. Or attention. Or stop her responses to you... which may very well have included serious sexual arousal.
Shannon,
I was thinking about your reply and I think the analysis is EXCELLENT!
Thank you for taking the time to provide such a thorough, detailed, and comprehensive analysis. You also connected the dots at the end which when I first read it were not so obvious to me, as I still think that when a woman is acting odd around me, I start to wonder if she doesn't like me. But I think you are right on about if she's used to having her beauty awed and I don't, it probably will throw her for a loop.
I also think you are right on about my attitude. At no point did I stand there thinking I was better than her, but I was calm, cool, in control, unflappable, and unphased. I think that was autopilot at work because it's definitely a number of steps up from what I normally experience.
Although I think I'll add that since starting v3.0.1 I think I'm getting more of this “I ask simple questions and women get confused” phenomenon. “I see you have short sleeved shirts. Do you have long sleeved shirts in this color” or “I noticed you have this shirt in green. I don't see any in blue, but do you have it in blue” or “I'd like to see any accessories you sell here. Could you show me where they are”. Even if someone doesn't know, they should know enough to get the manager. Some just stare at me in silence. Then I start to wonder if she thinks I talking in Aequian.
I don't know if I had an “own the world” attitude. But I definitely was very centered.
“So it's possible that you encountered a stunner who was in possession of a fragile ego and you told her she was beneath you without even knowing it... which is exactly how a genuinely super-high value man would do it. And then you asked about sales, which triggered the "This guy must be rich!" script... and the likely end result was that you effectively "fluster-f*cked" her. She wasn't in control, and she couldn't find a way to gain control. Or attention. Or stop her responses to you... which may very well have included serious sexual arousal.”
I think that is a very definite possibility. Now I just have to convince myself I'm that sexy!
