01-16-2017, 03:39 PM
(01-16-2017, 11:47 AM)Shannon Wrote: You set up expectations as artificial limitations. That's all they do.
You are male. You think like a male. They are female. They think (AND ACT) like females.
In this day and age, there is no respect online. It's too impersonal. Nobody cares unless you are face to face. Even then, half the time, people don't care. Manners? Who has those anymore? Respect? What's that? Common courtesy is pretty rare.
You can have all the expectations you want. They will only serve to make you miserable. Especially when they run counter to "what is".
I suggest in person dating efforts are thousands of times better for men.
Hey Shannon, your response let me know how lucky I have been. I have only been surrounded by people with decency and courtesy. Or at least those who are significant/special to me have been.
(01-16-2017, 09:16 AM)RisingSon Wrote: Uh-oh. This guy is overdosing on the redpill nature of reality. Quick! Someone get help!
LOL. This was a good one.
(01-16-2017, 09:16 AM)RisingSon Wrote: Online dating is a joke. A very bad one. It's dehumanizing and a rigged game. You were right in feeling anger towards it. Now you would be best to embrace that anger and move forwards (while releasing expectations but maintaining self-improvement). Some day you may become a bad boy like me once you take enough redpills. If DMSI is a set it and forget it sub, truly that would be magnificent. Then I wouldn't have to be such a jerk to get mediocre pussay.
Well, I don't know. For some guys it works very well, for others like me it's not. It's just a frustration that it's not having any returns compared to the investment. At least in my case, and yeah like I thought there was no decency or courtesy. As I wrote before, I feel lucky that only the people I encountered with or those who I form relationship (not dating sense, friendship/family friend) are the ones with decency and courtesy, and even more. So yeah, eventually I was able to see something positive, although some negativity still remains.
(01-16-2017, 12:12 PM)AbundanceCH Wrote: Your mistake is thinking it's ok being friends with women. Don't be friends with women.
You should only spend time with women that you
a) want to f****
and the time you spend with those women should be
a) trying to f*** them
You can either be a normal guy or you can be a sexual threat that spends his time chasing his goals and any time he is with a woman if he isn't trying to f*** her he is already f***kng her.
I don't go out to the movies, hang out, have coffee or do anything with "female buddies". There's no room for female friends in my world. To me women are meant for f**** and that's what I do. You see me with a woman i'm either f**** her already or trying to f**** her. I had sex over 160 times last year and I date multiple women. Do you want to be a normal guy or a sexual threat? Change your mindset.
Change your mindset to that of a lion. The king of the jungle isn't friends with bambie. You need to have the focus and determination to go after what you want like a lion and make yourself into the type of man who's time is so valuable that if you give it to a woman it's because she is giving you sex or soon to be giving you sex.
Thanks for your thought, but I will pass this one, even if it would mean I get no sex, no dates or whatever. I am also finding the timing of your post amusing as today is MLK day (Martin Luther King day) in the US.