01-15-2017, 10:04 PM
I guess I'm still doing the online dating thing. Seriously, this is something I'm not getting. It's obviously not working for me, and yet, I am keep doing it. I want to know what's keeping me to this.
I sent a few messages to OKC, which I did yesterday, and I also sent about two mails on Match. Interestingly, I find that Match's pool isn't all that greater, and apparently, girls put less effort in match than OKC. I can see it from the profile description. I find that this is ironic, as Match is much more expensive, and OKC can be used freely with limitations.
A few more things I find odd is that I got a few likes again, and two I thought I could see myself going on a date with, or sleeping with. (One of them, I wasn't sure.) Well, they visited me, and liked me, so I thought that they were going to respond me with something. Guess what? Nothing. I mean WHF?!? Okay, you put effort to visit me, and like me, and when I send you a very simple and brief message, you don't respond? (I know that they must have seen it, as they were online, when I sent the message.) Seriously, WTF is wrong with the people (I mean more specifically girls) on online dating?
I also think that something is wrong with my profile. It's creating views from some of the messages (I'd say that about 30~50% of the girls whom I sent to message to come and visit my profile. Yet no response, so something must be wrong with my profile.) As I said, I'll be waiting till next week to get this fixed, but this online dating thing seems too superficial and not workable for me. (And even I'm saying this, I have a feeling that I will be sticking to it until my subscription ends.... How ironic.)
Also I have another bad news. I haven't gotten any text from the girl, and this is around the time that she has been texting me. So now I assume that she was either being just polite, or just wanted to be friend with me. At the same time, I didn't ask her out on date, so I don't know she's not interested in me, but just wanted to be very polite. (Or I have sent messages that ignoring them would just blatantly make them feel the person bad?)
I don't know, I feel that I am making advances, but advances that don't feel like advances, but rather like proof that I'm so doomed to failure in this part of my life.
I sent a few messages to OKC, which I did yesterday, and I also sent about two mails on Match. Interestingly, I find that Match's pool isn't all that greater, and apparently, girls put less effort in match than OKC. I can see it from the profile description. I find that this is ironic, as Match is much more expensive, and OKC can be used freely with limitations.
A few more things I find odd is that I got a few likes again, and two I thought I could see myself going on a date with, or sleeping with. (One of them, I wasn't sure.) Well, they visited me, and liked me, so I thought that they were going to respond me with something. Guess what? Nothing. I mean WHF?!? Okay, you put effort to visit me, and like me, and when I send you a very simple and brief message, you don't respond? (I know that they must have seen it, as they were online, when I sent the message.) Seriously, WTF is wrong with the people (I mean more specifically girls) on online dating?
I also think that something is wrong with my profile. It's creating views from some of the messages (I'd say that about 30~50% of the girls whom I sent to message to come and visit my profile. Yet no response, so something must be wrong with my profile.) As I said, I'll be waiting till next week to get this fixed, but this online dating thing seems too superficial and not workable for me. (And even I'm saying this, I have a feeling that I will be sticking to it until my subscription ends.... How ironic.)
Also I have another bad news. I haven't gotten any text from the girl, and this is around the time that she has been texting me. So now I assume that she was either being just polite, or just wanted to be friend with me. At the same time, I didn't ask her out on date, so I don't know she's not interested in me, but just wanted to be very polite. (Or I have sent messages that ignoring them would just blatantly make them feel the person bad?)
I don't know, I feel that I am making advances, but advances that don't feel like advances, but rather like proof that I'm so doomed to failure in this part of my life.
