01-15-2017, 10:03 PM
(01-15-2017, 09:50 PM)sw72hw Wrote: Well, perhaps one thing you may need is drop the sex part. I don't know, just help a person out, whether the person's a guy or a girl. Something ironic I heard is that once a person drops obsession/association with sex things happen. Which is ironic in a certain sense as something comes to you when you don't care or want that anymore.
I've heard that before, and I tried it, but it didn't work (in fact, for most of my life I didn't care about sex or getting it, and I'm still a virgin. hmmm.)
Also, it's important to note that i got my makeouts spoecifically because that's what i was after. I didn't "let things happen", I made it my goal and got it.
So yeah, I recognize that it prolly does work that way for some people, but it doesn't for me.
(01-15-2017, 09:50 PM)sw72hw Wrote: Anyway I offered to help her out as I didn't have any plan for that weekend, besides, as a person who's been living alone for a long period of time, I know that moving or stuff like that can be tough. Also, I was working on my social skills as well and I thought that offering someone help is a good way to make friend, or get social. Sadly, I sorta messed that up by waking up late.
Fair enough, and to be honest, if you two started talking about living alone and stuff you'd prolly get to relate to her.
Also, I'm not saying helping women is the wrong thing to do, I'm just saying i wouldn't help a woman move. I'd prolly help her make dinner or something like that tho.