01-14-2017, 02:05 AM
(01-13-2017, 08:59 PM)Steven Wrote:(01-13-2017, 07:46 PM)RisingSon Wrote: She has a fractured psyche
@RisingSon
I think you bring up a good point in that what I think I was seeing was an inner conflict. She was aroused yet uncertain how to process it. Like she was trying to get control of herself when she felt out of control.
A lot of times, women who are "smoking hot" base their self identity on this fact and the ego gratification they get from the responses of others. If you come along and slap a woman who is used to "always being the hottest one in sight" with a calm, factual, completely natural "I'm simply hotter, and that's just the way it is" body language communication, she's probably going to take it hard.
The more gobsmacked they get, the more you end up generating arousal and interest with such women. I would bet your lack of interest was the autopilot steering you to "being irresistibly sexually attractive" to her by doing what would naturally trigger that reaction in her: displaying value that left hers "in the dust".
Here's a secret. The wealthiest people are frequently the most miserly. Salespeople learn this... so people who are looking for coupons, discounts and sales always fall into the "very low" or "very high" income levels. I saw this a lot as a salesman for multiple companies. We would have guys stroll in with the "I own the world" attitude, and ask for sales, coupons, discounts and favors on everything, even though the total bill was $30 and they were (I was later informed) inevitably millionaires and multi-millionaires.
Salespeople, and especially hot women, are very keenly aware of social status by body language, attitude and actions. That's how you know who to focus on when it comes to making more sales. That's how gold diggers know who to focus on... and sad to say, women seem to be more likely to be gold diggers the hotter they get.
So it's possible that you encountered a stunner who was in possession of a fragile ego and you told her she was beneath you without even knowing it... which is exactly how a genuinely super-high value man would do it. And then you asked about sales, which triggered the "This guy must be rich!" script... and the likely end result was that you effectively "fluster-f*cked" her. She wasn't in control, and she couldn't find a way to gain control. Or attention. Or stop her responses to you... which may very well have included serious sexual arousal.
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