01-09-2017, 08:05 AM
(01-08-2017, 10:16 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Don't worry about it man. This is a tough journey, no doubt about it.
If it helps you put things in perspective, just know that I had only matched with fat girls too. In fact, I didn't get contacted by attractive women for years.
It'll sound weird but it's almost magic how the more you improve, the better women will be for you. You'll see.
Just make improving socially and improving looks you're #1 priority. Women will come on their own.
Also, just like the sun sets in the west, you gotta know that most women will want/need you to contact them. It's just the way they work. So don't take it personally if they aren't contacting you. Most won't, even if they are interested.
I only wanted to mention about the girls online just as a statement. Not really about resentment or anything. Well, I got a reply from that PhD student, and so far I have to say she seems real enough. (I'm not going to finalize that decision until I meet her in person a few times though.) This definitely seem like an improvement than the previous ones. (Bunch of flaking or scammers contacting first.)
I replied to her, and asked for what her schedule is like. Maybe asking out too soon, but if no reply, then so be it.