01-03-2017, 09:56 AM
Just saw this now...
I think this is kind of splitting hairs.
What I meant was, one should care enough (i.e. make an effort) about how you're perceived by women if one wants a woman. Simple as that.
Also, some of us (i.e. Me) don't have the luxury of being able to do things our way and succeed.
(12-30-2016, 06:35 PM)Shannon Wrote: Ah, but you are wrong.
I could care less what a woman thinks. I do things my way. If a woman doesn't like that, she can deal with it. By being true to myself, I only attract women who want what I represent.
But, if I want to find a date on a dating site, it makes sense to give the best impression of myself to my potential matches, so that I come across as being as high value as possible and thereby attracting the highest value female.
I still don't care what they think. I just want a maximally attractive woman to respond. That is how one accomplishes that goal.
I think this is kind of splitting hairs.
What I meant was, one should care enough (i.e. make an effort) about how you're perceived by women if one wants a woman. Simple as that.
Also, some of us (i.e. Me) don't have the luxury of being able to do things our way and succeed.
