DMSI, will you be the final piece of puzzle?

[Shannon]

When a man posts professionally done photos on his dating profile, it says to a woman (consciously and/or subconsciously):

This man is important, has good taste and knows what is important. He understands how to present himself well. He is willing to do what it takes to accomplish his goals. He really is serious about getting what he wants in life.

This is a big factor for increasing responses and attraction from women.

You have to do the things that trigger the responses you want. To do that, you must understand how they think and why they do what they do - at least, to some degree.

Which means, that you DO have to care what they think, know what they think, and do what they think you should do. (I'm never gonna let up on this)

Ah, but you are wrong.

I could care less what a woman thinks. I do things my way. If a woman doesn't like that, she can deal with it. By being true to myself, I only attract women who want what I represent.

But, if I want to find a date on a dating site, it makes sense to give the best impression of myself to my potential matches, so that I come across as being as high value as possible and thereby attracting the highest value female.

I still don't care what they think. I just want a maximally attractive woman to respond. That is how one accomplishes that goal.