12-30-2016, 09:56 AM
(12-30-2016, 12:58 AM)Shannon Wrote: You are a very smart man, getting good quality photos done for your dating profile. Most people don't ever have a clue how much they lose out on because they use crappy imagery. For this purpose, I recommend getting professional work done whenever you change significantly in how you look, or about every 3 to 5 years. In the mean time, you can supplement with an occasional cell phone pic or whatnot for newer stuff.
Thank you Shannon. I also appreciate your suggestion on the profile photos. It makes so much more sense now!
Last night, before going to bed, I felt all happy and blissful. I don't know, but the feeling and imagination was that once I complete the profile, I'd get to meet some great women, and have great time. (Both in and out of bed :p ) The imagination of having great time, feeling her presence, warmth on her skin, giving and receiving pleasures from her was all euphoric.
Right now, I'm a bit concerned, because for some reason, I'm getting all the imaginations which may be stretching a little too far. And when an expectation go too far, it can easily lead to huge disappointments and even despair. So I will need to work on enjoying all this, while not having too high of an expectation. (After all, I'm fresh off the boat when it comes to dating scene. I wouldn't get results that soon. Who know, I may get it, but I'm trying to not have inflated expectations and hope.)
I also wanted to state a possibly negative stuff. For instance, I've been wanting to go out to either museum or to zoo. My sleep schedule has shifted, and the weather has suddenly gotten cold. (It even rained here yesterday.) I can still technically go out, but I've been having difficulty making myself to go out for an extended period of time. (Like going to museum or to a zoo.) I'm wondering if this is a possible resistance. Also, in one part of my mind, I have this thought to go approach random strangers to ask for the time or to ask to take a photo (I had this thought even before eternity suggested). So my sleep schedule shifted, and difficulty going out to the places I want to (I want to go to the places before next semester starts). In a way, hiring the professional may be a result of the resistance.
So then, the stuff I'm doing and being pushed to do is a result of both DMSI's pushing myself to get to the desired goal, and actualization of resistance?
Uhhhhhh, I don't know what to say. I think something funny is going on, and my mind is so spinning. 
Who knows, it can also be that my having not gone to those places may work out well. (They can be excellent places for date, so my resistance may turn out to be great later on. Saving the juicy stuff to be shared with a great girl!
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