12-27-2016, 05:15 PM
Just as a general comment, I think one of the things I've given up is my fear of "missing an opportunity" or "messing it up with that really hot woman".
I don't know how to best describe it, but I hardly feel a need to win over any woman at this point. I just don't care. I'm wondering if that in and of itself throws off her. Plus her finding me stunning. Plus realizing her powers of beauty may be not be sufficient for attracting me. Plus that she might actually have to do something to appeal to me rather than just doing what seems to work with all the other guys, which she might be very practiced at.
I don't know how to best describe it, but I hardly feel a need to win over any woman at this point. I just don't care. I'm wondering if that in and of itself throws off her. Plus her finding me stunning. Plus realizing her powers of beauty may be not be sufficient for attracting me. Plus that she might actually have to do something to appeal to me rather than just doing what seems to work with all the other guys, which she might be very practiced at.
