12-10-2016, 10:32 AM
(This post was last modified: 12-10-2016, 10:43 AM by AbundanceCH.)
Question for Shannon.
You have mentioned many times all over the place about honesty when it comes to relationships and about you telling them that you may sleep with other women if you want to and not hiding that fact.
So do you tell your women that they can do the same or do you tell them to only be loyal to you? I'm guessing it's the same or else it wouldn't be fair now would it? But then again if a man is so alpha he could ask for that or probably better a woman will just remain loyal on her known because he is so alpha.
The issue i'm having is that i am dating two women right now and they don't know that I am. I'm exclusive without being exclusive. We never made the agreement to be bf/gf, but we told each other we wouldn't like one another seeing other people. This is because if i'm dating someone I don't want them to be fkd by another guy, and I know this is kind of a double standard but whatever. I guess it's in our genes for men to want to fk multiple women but also have those same women be loyal to them.
I agree with everything you say about being honest from the start with a woman when it comes to the possibility that you may also have sex with other women. I am good enough to date multiple women but I am not at that alpha level yet where I have no fear of not getting a woman if I tell her that I may not be exclusive right from the start.
I think I still have that scarcity mentality where if I do tell her that I fear I won't get her so I rather just get her and lie about my little secret.
I am not a player by any means I don't do one night stands. I prefer the stability of a relationship but I am just not easily satisfied with one woman so I date multiple women.
Besides that question that I asked you what advice would you give me? Since i never made the agreement to be exclusive I am thinking I will tell them both that I may or may not sleep with other women if I choose to and they can leave if they want. But this is only if they bring up the subject of me seeing other women. If not i'll just leave things as they are. What do you think?
You have mentioned many times all over the place about honesty when it comes to relationships and about you telling them that you may sleep with other women if you want to and not hiding that fact.
So do you tell your women that they can do the same or do you tell them to only be loyal to you? I'm guessing it's the same or else it wouldn't be fair now would it? But then again if a man is so alpha he could ask for that or probably better a woman will just remain loyal on her known because he is so alpha.
The issue i'm having is that i am dating two women right now and they don't know that I am. I'm exclusive without being exclusive. We never made the agreement to be bf/gf, but we told each other we wouldn't like one another seeing other people. This is because if i'm dating someone I don't want them to be fkd by another guy, and I know this is kind of a double standard but whatever. I guess it's in our genes for men to want to fk multiple women but also have those same women be loyal to them.
I agree with everything you say about being honest from the start with a woman when it comes to the possibility that you may also have sex with other women. I am good enough to date multiple women but I am not at that alpha level yet where I have no fear of not getting a woman if I tell her that I may not be exclusive right from the start.
I think I still have that scarcity mentality where if I do tell her that I fear I won't get her so I rather just get her and lie about my little secret.
I am not a player by any means I don't do one night stands. I prefer the stability of a relationship but I am just not easily satisfied with one woman so I date multiple women.
Besides that question that I asked you what advice would you give me? Since i never made the agreement to be exclusive I am thinking I will tell them both that I may or may not sleep with other women if I choose to and they can leave if they want. But this is only if they bring up the subject of me seeing other women. If not i'll just leave things as they are. What do you think?
