11-29-2016, 10:59 PM
(11-29-2016, 10:43 PM)eternitys_child Wrote:(11-29-2016, 10:26 PM)Shannon Wrote: My girlfriend tells me I am her best friend. She also tells me I am the man she wants to have babies with and that I am the best lover she's ever had, without competition.
So it's possible that she could mean there is more than just friendly attraction.
The solution I suggest you take is to simply ask her. "I'm confused about how you respond to me. There are relatively equal indicators of platonic and ____ kinds of interest. What's going on? If you're interested for sex/romance, it would be helpful if I knew that."
Funny how I didn't think directly asking in the way you suggest was an actual viable option. Il LOL thanks for the advice Shannon.
And cozy, you are probably right about that too. How do I say this without sounding like i am boasting? I'm sort of perceived as a celebrity or dare I say it "hero" (and as much as I love the attention, it just inflates my ego). It's very possible these women's be riding the curtails of my status, without riding my ****. Hahahaha.
Well, if I were you I would try to make them jealous, and see how they respond to that. If you can see that it's working ask them what's wrong, if they mention something tell them you thought they just saw you as friends. Then from there she'll probably start chasing you.
