(11-29-2016, 10:12 PM)Shannon Wrote:(11-29-2016, 10:02 PM)eternitys_child Wrote: For a lack of a better place to put this, and considering we are talking about the subject anyway...
I Have been "best friendzoned" by 5 of the hottest women I know. They call me their best friend, and tell me things like
"You're the only person I would trust to do Reiki on me"
"I'll definitely make time for you"
"I love you"
I can't for the life of me figure out why my mind always think they're just super friendzoning me. Would it be wrong to assume their level of attraction to me is sky high, even though half of them have boyfriends? (Which hottie doesn't always have a man around her?)
Today I felt sick to my stomach when 2 of these girls went up to the podium to talk about me in front of 40 ppl, even though they had nothing but good things to say about me. Each one made it PUBLICALLY clear that I am their best friend....
Which one is it? Friendzone? Or attraction?
I can't read minds very well.
The indicators you specify are contradictory.
And they're contradictory in my mind, too. Which is why I'm so confused.
If a girl says you're her best friend to 40 ppl but then poses in a pic with you making 80% of the side of her body contact with yours... that seems pretty contradictory to me!
Gonna delete this pic in 8 min