11-20-2016, 07:09 PM
(11-18-2016, 10:47 PM)Barba Wrote:(11-18-2016, 09:39 AM)mat422 Wrote: Decided to give the online dating thing a shot for the hell of it. Joined okcupid. I'm 25 and a lot of matches I get are 21-22 year olds. I don't really expect much out of joining this site, but I figured what the hell. But something about dating someone younger than me doesn't feel right. Maybe that's something I need to get over. It might also be the fact that I'm older but still don't have my life together and I guess I'm still embarrassed about that. Just in general I haven't put myself out there much with women because I felt like my whole living situation would turn them off.
I've found, the value you have is the value you give yourself. AM will help you with this I believe, it helped me. Good luck with dating & AM run!
Definitely looking forward to it. Being able to live my life based on internal validation is something I've always been striving for.
(11-19-2016, 10:17 PM)Benjamin Wrote: It only feels like that because you've been fed *****, lies and guilt by society. 4 years is barely anything. The girl i'm seeing now is 11 years younger than me and there hasn't been any issues. The last one was 10 years younger.
And that's what I prefer, women my age have stupid baggage and are usually the ones to write retarded profiles demanding all kinds of stupid crap and that whole attitude is a turn off. Younger girls are more relaxed, fun, playful and some of the girls my age even have lost that.
Though before E2 I still had guilt and such around it, now i'm way more okay with it.
That's what I figured, but wanted a second opinion. I've already encountered some women like that with their profiles. I'm convinced some of them are just narcissists. Social media seems to attract those types of individuals in large quantities. Men and women alike.
