11-20-2016, 03:04 PM
(11-20-2016, 02:37 PM)Sickologist Wrote: I perfectly understand what you were saying. Most of what you've wrote here was okay, what I had an issue with was that reply, she said "does that ever work for you?", then it's pretty weak to say "no, it doesn't". That's retreating from an already sexually charged situation. She was trying to feel him out, if his strong vibe was real. I'd say something like "it's worked on hotter girls than you" and then kiss her. That's a strong move, something they never heard before.
I don't see "abundance mentality" as a requirement to get laid. The girl isn't thinking "is this guy abundant?". It was more like "holy shit, actually a guy who has balls to try to **** me". That signals experience and also abundance, he's done it before it seems to her. It's more important to pass a girls looks threshold than to have social proof and stuff like that.
I don't know where you live dude, but here where we live this is how you get laid, being extremely aggressive. Or you have to be a complete pussy and sniff her ass at every turn. There's no in between.
I don't disagree with flirting with other girls, but she was a 10 by his book, the girl he wanted to ****. Of course he should do that. And if she wasn't interested, she would've stopped him long before he was caressing her and making her moan, something I can really identify with.
Of course you want girls to want to **** you, can't say anything about that. I'm like that too. It was also the situation here. But like we've said many times, girls in Scandinavia are some strange ass creatures. I've been to a few other countries, which is why I said if it happen another place, maybe your strategy would've worked. Here it doesn't, that's just the way it is.
Btw, I believe it screening more than seduction. Hence, what I wrote in my first reply to Illumi. But you just can't blame a guy for gunning on with a hot 10 who was obviously into him.
I guess I forgot the sarcastic tone. Like "nah never". Imagine how you'd react if a fat chick acted like you were hitting on her, you would just walk away laughing, that's the kinda frame I'm talking about. Like walking away as if she's a loser for saying what she said.
I think you're right in saying that countries may be a massive difference in the way we need to interact. I live in Melbourne, Australia. Guys here are commonly aggressive, often stupidly so. What works for me here, is being aggressive in the sense of physically escalating, but also being chill, pulling back letting her chase a little, showing that other girls are into you. Here in Aus, if a girl says something like "does that ever work for you", I can only imagine her saying it in a tone of "wow you're trying too hard". That's why when you said a girl could ask that if she's inexperienced and wondering if that's how it works, I guess it just doesn't fit the attitude of Australian girls.
Turning super saiyan.
